Tag: 2017

  • Welcome to the Resistance: Are you sitting uncomfortably?

    Welcome to the Resistance: Are you sitting uncomfortably?

    I don’t know about you but I feel like I’m basking in a post-Women’s March glow at the moment. It certainly feels like the Feminist Movement has gained momentum again. The shots of the crowds were incredibly moving, uplifting images of solidarity. The world does feel a little brighter, so forgive me if this post seems to dim the lights on what was an incredible event.

    In the aftermath of the march coverage, I couldn’t help but feel a sense of cynicism over the celebrations over the zero number of arrests, the comments on how peaceful the protesters were, and how well received the march was in general by the public. Whilst, yes, it’s always reassuring to know that no one got hurt, I can’t help but think about the levels of violence protesters faces for the Black Lives Matter movement and the Dakota Access Pipeline in the past year alone.

    The Women’s March, though largely attended by a huge number of minority groups and run by women of colour, they were largely outnumbered by cis-white women. The march itself was well funded and rigorously organised. They had legal permission to march and police were very much on side for crowd control, rather than regulate protesters. For all intents and purposes, if you wanted to dive into activism this was probably the best possible situation to do so.

    It begs to question, are we only willing to stand up when we know we’re not going to get attacked? Tear gassed? Blasted with ice water? Or even shot at?

    More than a march, welcome to the movement

    There is a privilege that comes with being white or cis-gender to have the choice of being actively political and to speak out. Even us, white passing people of colour have to admit that we so far have had an easy-ish ride.

    The challenge now? Are we willing to reach out of our comfort zone, in order to protect those who have fewer rights than us. Are we willing to see the World intersectionally? Are we willing to understand that women of colour, the LGBTQ+ community and the disabled have been marching and shouting far longer than many of us have.

    Are we willing to set aside our privilege and listen to people with wholly different experiences to our own?

    A call to arms

    So I speak now to you, the apprehensive and tentative activist. If you’re new to the movement, welcome. We are an inclusive and caring bunch. We want the numbers, we need the numbers now more than ever. But that uneasy feeling in your stomach that dealing with issues of inequality; of facing violent racism and homophobia head on; the drop in your stomach on being called out for being transphobic or ableist; the fervent tiredness of fighting?

    It’s a familiar feeling that minorities are living everyday.

    It’s not a fun feeling and it may be something you’re not used to. But it’s time to embrace uncomfortable conversations, issues and actions. After all, when has fighting for something you care about ever been easy?

    A few things you can do right now to slide yourself into that mindset:

    Whatever you do, don’t resolve to stand still on issues.

    Embrace being comfortable with being uncomfortable.

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    If you’re new activism, what’s been your first act? Was it something big like the Women’s March, or something small, like RT-ing activists on Twitter.

    Ria Xx

  • Postcards from Oxford

    Postcards from Oxford

    It’s been almost two years since I packed up and moved to Oxford. Can you believe it? Living in a place for so long can make you feel a bit jaded. You start seeing the cracks in the city, you always find something to complain about, you forget how excited and new everything felt when you first moved. It’s easy to nit pick about the snobbish nature of Oxford, the masses of tourists/cyclists/annoying buggers on the high street, the constant construction, but as much as I bemoan I have to admit that I am really lucky to live here.

    I take snaps of Oxford all the time, with the most wanderlust worthy living on my Instagram anyway, but I rarely actually highlight them in one big set. So here’s a few of my favourites. Have a wander through the cobbled streets with me.


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    Make sure you follow me on Instagram (@RCagz)  if you’re after more Oxfordian snaps. And if any of you lovely lot are in the area, hit me up. I love playing tour guide!

    Ria

     

  • Non-Fiction For A New Year

    Non-Fiction For A New Year

    Just a over halfway through January fam! Still feeling inspired? Or are you flagging a bit? Never fear, here’s my quick fix recommendation. Pick up one of these four non-fiction books to help give you a boot up the backside and get that ‘New Year, New Me’ feeling back again.

    Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, Elizabeth Gilbert

    This was my 2017 ‘get your head in the game’ January read, so the inspiration it’s given me is very much fresh in my head. Elizabeth Gilbert, likely most famous to most as the author Eat Pray Love, tackles creativity in her latest dive into self-help. The book is mostly about harnessing and embracing creativity, with a spiritual and mindful approach. To be honest some of it does get a bit too spiritual for my liking, but some of the ideas presented about creativity being more of a sentient being than a personal characteristic is definitely interesting.

    Spinster: Making a Life of One’s Own by Kate Bolick

    You may remember my review/follow up post on this one last year, but if you’re perhaps struggling with your single status this one is for you. It provided me with a nice reminder that our self worth should not be measure in romantic entanglements and that plenty of women have flown whilst in and out of relationships. The of the point being we should embrace our wonderful, individual lives.

    Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking, Susan Cain

    Classified under one under one of the books that changed my life. I reviewed this one eons ago, and even though I identify more as an extroverted introvert nowadays it’s a nice one to flick back to every so often. Useful for both introverts and extroverts alike, Quiet so eloquently restores faith in the idea that introversion is your biggest strength, not a crutch.

    The Good Immigrant (edited by Nikesh Shukla)

    I love a good essay collection and The Good Immigrant is certainly one of the most thought provoking I’ve read in a while. The stories and personal essays are all written by BAME authors, artists, and actors on race and diversity. Some are serious, some humourous, but they’re all insightful and wonderfully written. It’s particularly great to hear experiences from minorities living in the UK, as often conversations about race tend to focus more on the US narrative.

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    Have any of these pick already inspired you? Are there any that I have missed off the list that you think I should read?

    Ria Xx